How To Date Asian Women

When you first have your first date be on your best behavior. If you have any bad habits, like smoking, picking your nose, burping then stop immediately. Asian women are turned off by this behavior. Talk about interesting subjects like what kind of work you do or funny things that happen to you during the week.

I think the best thing to discuss is about herself. Try to ask questions about where she came from, what she does for a living. But don't ask in half-hearted way, be really interested in her. Most Asian women complain that men do not really listen to them, instead they keep hearing about how good the men were or what car they drive.

Avoid controversial subjects such as sex, discuss about your ex-girlfriends or talk down to her or her culture. Try not to be yourself. Instead be your best self. That is, you are funny, happy and relaxed guy who can cope in any situations. Always pay attention to her, and do not look around for other women. It would make the women feel uncomfortable and not special.

Treat her like a lady – the old fashioned way like the movies. For example, when you go out, hold the door open for her, walk outside the pavement, pay for her dinner and wait for her to get out of the elevator first. Always lead the lady like a gentlemen, don't be a doormat.

When you set the time for the date, be specific on what you two are going to do for the night. Don't say to her, “You choose what to do”. This is the worst thing you can do for your date. She has high expectations of the date and you to always lead her. Always arrive on time for the date. Asian women are turned off by a guy who turns up late for a date.

In case something happen, for example a traffic jam, call her up on her cell phone to inform her that you will be late. To be safe, leave early as possible.

If it's you're first date, arrange your date to meet at her work place or offer her to meet her at her home. She might not feel comfortable meeting you at your workplace or home. This is to make her as comfortable as possible. Try to keep the date simple. Don't over plan things because you might not like her or you put too much pressure on yourself to impress her.

When you talking to her, you must show you are interested in Asian culture the moment you have a long conversation with her. Do not talk down about her culture as she might feel offended. Also, do not refer her as Asian or her ethnicity because you are dealing with a unique individual human being and not a general group of people

Conclude the night on being a gentleman by giving her a kiss. Do not force her to kiss, but try to read her body language by holding her hands, laughing and smiling. It is important to be aware in Asian culture that kissing is a taboo in public. She may want to kiss but she might feel really uncomfortable in public. Instead, give her a nice kiss when you drop her at her place and hopefully you would see her again.